Monday, 20 January 2014

My mother had no faith in the sea

                  Weymouth,Old ferryman - Picture of Weymouth, Dorset
This photo of Weymouth is courtesy of TripAdvisor  It is however typical of the old ferry boat at Littlehampton

My mother had no faith in the sea’s trustworthiness. She panicked whenever the ocean, sea, tidal inlet or even a sluggish river were in close proximity. This became apparent to me as an 11 year old when we spent a holiday with relatives who lived by the sea at Littlehampton in Sussex shortly after WW2. We stayed in a village a tidy walk from the town and the sea itself was still a distance from the shops. The beach was flat and mostly sandy which was where most people congregated close to all conveniences such as the ice cream parlours, the tea rooms, the amusement arcade, the putting greens and of course the public conveniences.
My father was more adventurous and on hearing of a deserted beach on the other side of the river that ran through the town decided on an expedition to this haven from the hoi polloi, in order that games, picnics and sea bathing could be enjoyed without the need to jostle for space on the main beach, trip over others belongings and join hundreds of others in the an almost religious dip into the ocean akin to bathing in the Ganges. Mother approved the plan and we found that to reach the unspoilt pristine beach we would have to be rowed across the river by a boat plied by a boatman. This was exciting. The boatman himself was a gnarled weather beaten old salt that said little and merely did his job whilst smoking a old pipeful of rank tobacco that sent up a cloud and stench so foul no other water craft came near us. I do remember his hands though; great brown knotted clumps of flesh on the ends of his arms that gripped the oars and seemed to me to epitomise immense strength.
I could see the panic on my mother’s face as we and several other hardy souls intent on exploration also clambered into the boat. The charge per passenger was 1d and for this we were ferried a few yards across the River Arun. This comparatively short river rising somewhere to the north of Arundel was extremely fast flowing. At Littlehampton this was quite evident when the tide was out. When the tide was in, as it was this morning, the basin filled and the water was sluggish so rowing across to the other side was simple, much to the relief of mother. Thus it was when we crossed for the first time and safely delivered on foreign territory we trekked the few hundred yards to the beach and spent the whole day there, exploring, eating, playing and even bathing. Mother however merely donned her sunsuit and had no discourse at all with the sea.
With all the food eaten, bodies burnt by the wind and the sun, tired out from so much exploration and hungry again we made our way back to the ferry crossing. There was a queue of customers as the journey seemed to take longer this time. The tide was going out. No that is not true it was racing out and the pair of ferry boats in use were making very heavy weather of the trip. When we finally boarded and pushed off the boatman with grim determination immediately turned the craft and rowed with a steely look on his face in what appeared to be wrong direction upstream and continued that way painfully slowly. Only when the berth on the opposite side seemed totally out of reach did he carefully swing the boat around and drift with the current. The craft seemed hopelessly out of control until some yards from the berth did he nudge the boat into the waiting hands on shore to quickly fasten it and unload the passengers on dry land. Now we boys and Dad certainly had faith that all would be well. Mother on the other hand did not open her eyes until she was helped out of the boat on the other side.

I posted  this recollection originally in Aug 2010 on the old Sunday Scribblings web site


  1. I remember that old ferryman. He had a whacking great goiter on his neck, and was as brown as a nut. Never ever saw him about the town in winter, when the river ferrying stopped.

  2. Wonderful tale of childhood adventures Old Egg! I can well imagine your mother's terror and I doubt I would have felt much differently, but most certainly it made an exciting trip for you! This story was a perfect fit for the TST prompt, thank you for sharing!

  3. really well written story...I mean the story was great but the telling was really well done!

  4. I enjoyed reading this very much. I couldn't imagine not living on the sea. We live on a rather tiny island connected to the mainland by a 2 mile causeway which floods on occasion with a high storm tide and is closed. Your mum would be be quite miserable here. I love it though and shouldn't ever want to live inland.

  5. Another wonderful reminisce! I have small patience for water, I'm afraid, but I'm not afraid as long as I don't have to swim.

  6. I remember being scared and also excited, when I first went down a fast flowing river in a narrow boat with a bunch of passengers. It was fun, but it was also scary, knowing that you could easily just fall off at any moment, but they gave us life savers.... : )